Puzzled

Had a chit chat with my bf. One thing struck me. He said that every man wants his wife to look good. No men want a wife that looks like a "three doors refrigerator". He said I can make a little survey and will found out that every man wants a beautiful, proportional, eye-pleasing wife (well, I conclude that from what he said). 

Somehow it made me sad. It crushed my concept about 'true love' or 'pure love'. Love that will last even though your spouse look ugly. 

I can not deny that appearance is an important aspect of relationship. Since man is a very visual creature, no man wants an ugly spouse. But somehow, I thought if he love her, he'll accept her as she is. No matter how fat she is. 

Today I realize, it might only be in my fantasy.

What do you think?