Rabu, 16 Februari 2011

Happy Valentine's Day!

What's Valentine's Day for you? The 'it' day where you can show extra love to your partner? The day where you received roses and chocolates? Or.. Do have other things in mind?

I don't mind people celebrating Valentine's day. I used to celebrate it too. For me it is "just another reason to be pampered with roses and fine date". Shallow? Maybe. Actually we don't need specific date on specific month with certain history background to show extra love to partner, beloved friend or family.

We -or at least I- could do it in every random time. According to behavior theorist, random scheduled 'reward' will strengthen behavior, stronger than fixed scheduling. So, instead of giving flowers and go to a fine date every 14th of February, do it in random time. Your partner will appreciate it -guarantee!- and his/her positive behavior toward you will be even stronger. Be prepare for more smile, hugs, kisses, sweet words and supports.

Happy (belated) Valentine's day!

*l spent my "Valentine" evening with loved ones -like I did in other weekend- Here's my picture with Rona*
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